Even if you rely on your friends for advice and help, an unexpected pregnancy means you alone can make a decision. Your friends may have good intentions and a solid relationship with you, but you are in control here.
Facing pressure to have an abortion can be difficult and create extra anxiety. Crossroads Life Center will help you sort through your options without judgment or pressure. Keep reading to learn how to manage your situation and make a confident decision.
1. Process your own feelings about the pregnancy.
It can be confusing when others tell us what to think and feel about our situation. If this applies to you, know you deserve time to process things.
Consider your initial reaction to the pregnancy, any questions or concerns you may have, and any options you may be leaning toward. Doing so in an environment free from distractions and outside opinions can help clarify what you believe versus what your friends believe.
2. Discuss boundaries with your friends.
Setting boundaries with friends can be difficult, especially if you care deeply about the relationship and worry about upsetting them. However, remind yourself that this is your pregnancy. If your friends are worried or concerned, they can channel those emotions into something productive that benefits you.
It may be helpful to voice what you’re uncomfortable with. Saying things like, “I feel really uneasy when you tell me to have an abortion. I need to make the decision myself. Could you support me by ________?” not only creates a boundary but tells your friends what they can do to help.
3. Prioritize your well-being.
Sometimes, we face more opposition than we expect in difficult situations. If your friends don’t respect your boundaries or the pressure increases, consider sharing this with someone who can provide extra support. No one has the right to make a pregnancy decision on your behalf.
It’s okay to spend time apart as you weigh your options. It’s crucial to make a levelheaded decision with all the facts. The option you select affects your life most of all, and you deserve to decide without additional stress.
This time can feel uncertain, but Crossroads Life Center is here. We’ll help you get the necessary information and navigate your situation.
Here to Help
We respect your autonomy and privacy as you make a pregnancy decision. That’s why we offer services in a completely confidential environment.
Schedule a no-cost appointment today to discuss your options with one of our mentors.
Crossroads Life Center does not provide or refer for abortions.