If your parents are pressuring you to have an abortion against your wishes, it’s important to know that no one can legally coerce you. Coercion into any pregnancy decision is not acceptable, and forced abortions are illegal.
If you feel unsafe or fear you may be in immediate danger, call 911 right away. You can also reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline or speak with a trusted adult if you are in an abusive situation. The Center Against Forced Abortions offers templated letters to help you navigate difficult conversations or seek help.
If your parents are concerned but not abusive, remind them this is your decision and seek accurate information and supportive resources to help you make a confident, informed choice.
Schedule a Health Screening
Crossroads Life Center offers free pregnancy resources, including pregnancy tests and ultrasound referrals.
Ultrasounds provide important information about gestational age, pregnancy location, and viability. Confirming that your pregnancy is progressing is essential, as miscarriage occurs in approximately 26% of pregnancies.
It is also important to rule out an ectopic pregnancy. An ectopic pregnancy can be a serious and potentially life-threatening medical condition.
As you get more information about your pregnancy, you will learn about every available option. This is essential for figuring out your next steps, even without parental support.
During your appointment, we can also discuss your situation and connect you with organizations that can help with your specific needs.
Explore Alternative Options
After gathering more information about your pregnancy, you can consider your alternatives: parenting and adoption. If your home situation is stable and safe, you can talk with your parents about both.
In the US, most adoptions are open, which means that they allow the birth parent to have ongoing contact with the child and adoptive family, although more private options are available.
In many cases, the adoption agency or adoptive family you choose may help with medical and living expenses throughout the pregnancy.
Parenting could also be a possibility, with many programs offering support to single or low-income parents. We can help you learn about all resources.
Talk with Crossroads Life Center Today
Crossroads Life Center offers free options consultations to help you explore your choices.
During your appointment, you’ll receive guidance and compassionate support as you consider your next steps and prepare to talk with your parents.
Contact us today to schedule a confidential, no-cost appointment!